HA! Someone DOES want my advice! (and if YOU would like to Ask Miss Britt, email me, britt@miss-britt.com)
Anyway…
Hi,I am in need of some advice and maybe you could use this for your Monday thing.My ex-boyfriend with whom I have three kids with, has just been released from the county jail after serving six months for violating a restraining order which I placed on him about a year ago.
He is still infatuated with me, who isn’t? So I think you can see where this is going…
Do I go along until something happens again, which in turn makes him very happy or do I move out of the state taking the three boys and changing our names on the way. (Hey, it works for the mexicans!)
I am not completely against a “do over” or a “give him another go”. I mean I am still attracted to him but he just gets a little crazy sometimes.(Miss Britt Edited To Add: This is the point where my head damn near explodes.)
Prior to all this we had been together on and off for fifteen years. Kids are 13, 12, and 2.
Thanks for your input I really don’t know what to do and maybe someone elses opinion, besides my mother’s, will help me.
Hugs and Kisses
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I hate Monday posts. Do you know why? Because they are written on Sunday night. And it is almost guaranfuckingteed that by Sunday night I will be exhausted from the lengthy Shit To Do list I’ve tackled over the weekend.
(And shut up, that is totally a word.)
Anyway. Monday posts suck ass and Sunday nights filled with brain wracking and blogger guilt. Normally.
But no more!! Because from here on out (or, for at least this week) Mondays are for lazy blogging “What Would Miss Britt Do?” (arg, I think I need different punctuation there…)
ANYWAY. Here’s the deal. I got an email asking for advice. An unsolicited email from a reader who wanted ME to tell HER what to do with her life.
Do you know how long I have been WAITING for this day?! Do you KNOW how many times I have said “if people would just ask me how to live their lives…”?!
And now, I have the chance to fulfill a lifelong dream - and technically I can’t be called a judgemental bitch. Because I was ASKED.
So - before I get to the question and brilliance, just a heads up that if anyone else out there wants me to judge guide or advise them on important matters, email me and I will enlighten you answer the best I can. (I won’t post your real name or email address. Unless you piss me off. Then, all bets are off).
OK, now, the question of the week (doesn’t that sound all official and shit?!):
Hey Britt,
I read your blog daily and miss it terribly on the on the weekends and you basically rock more than anyone else in the entire world. So, it only seems fitting to me that I come to you with my new problem…
I am married, have two kids, blah blah blah, you know the story. Anyways, lately there has been this new person on my mind. I don’t know if this person and I have a “real connection” or if it’s just me wishing that there was something. Today I was talking to him and I wasn’t sure if he was looking at me like I was a complete idiot or if he was gazing into my beautiful eyes wishing he was kissing me (as I was with him)…anyways…what do I do??
And please don’t give me the kind of advice I don’t want to hear like, “leave him alone, your married!” LOL Really though, what do I do??
Hope to hear from you soon,
Pipper
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