Comments on: The Ache

By: Al_Pal

Al_Pal — Thu, 01 Oct 2009 11:47:04 +0000

Gah. Just got to this and the ‘announcement’ post. *sadface*

Add me to the Sitting Shiva list.

& yes, it is amazing how little we are called by our given names.

Wishing the best for you & your family.

By: Coal Miner's Granddaughter

Coal Miner's Granddaughter — Thu, 10 Sep 2009 03:42:12 +0000

I’m going to tell you the same thing I told you via e-mail the other day.

I love you.

Just that. I do.

By: Sarcastica

Sarcastica — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 01:37:47 +0000

Oh Britt, I’m so sorry hun. I hope everything resolves soon, I hate seeing you ache I don’t really know what to say other then I’m here and I’m sending positive thoughts and hugs your way. I wish I could do more. xoxo

*hugs*

By: Steve

Steve — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 15:50:39 +0000

Been there, done that… What I didn’t have and you need is one or 2 close friends that have your best interest at heart close by. As long as they don’t just agree with you for the sake of appeasing your emotions, trust them in ways you wouldn’t normally. I made some bad choices simply because my emotions were so confused. Now’s the time to rely on close friends – ones who love you and Jared both.
The name change is just the beginning… it gets worse. And it is not always the “good person” that “wins” (there never is a winner). Stand up for what you want. If it is Jared, use the 3 months to “force talk” (do it even though it may be the hardest thing).
My 2 cents (I guess that is 3 in Canada.

By: Jennifer

Jennifer — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 14:30:30 +0000

Having been there with my first marriage I know what you are feeling. Your heart is hurt now but it will heal.That buzzing in your head,the constant tornado of what ifs and why nots will quiet. You will emerge stronger,smarter and whole.
with love,
Jenn

By: IdleMindOfBeth

IdleMindOfBeth — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 14:21:54 +0000

Holding you – all 4 of you – in my heart as you stumble your way thru this.

By: Miss Britt

Miss Britt — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 13:12:04 +0000

@ygraine, that’s almost exactly what my mom keeps saying to me.

That’s one of the biggest reasons for the separation – to get some space from the moment to moment to maybe be able to see the balance better.

By: Miss Britt

Miss Britt — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 13:11:11 +0000

@Vic, “Whatever happens, you’ll get through this”

I will. I absolutely will. We both – all – will.

By: Miss Britt

Miss Britt — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 13:10:53 +0000

@Selma, feeling your love all the way over here, Selma. Thank you. XOXO

By: Miss Britt

Miss Britt — Tue, 08 Sep 2009 13:10:28 +0000

@Lynda, heh, yes, I, um, definitely more the mule, probably.