Gearing Up and Scaling Back

by Miss Britt on June 5, 2009

I have a feeling that my life is about to get crazy.

Tomorrow I’m heading to Tampa to say goodbye to Anissa, after spending the afternoon at Faiqa’s baby shower.

Next weekend I’m headed to Lexington, Kentucky with Hilly and Adam for ConFab.  I’m looking forward to rooming with Hilly and Becky and having lots and lots of girl time.  And of course, there is the party itself will which take place at another blogger’s house.

The kids are headed for Iowa in July where they’ll spend a month with all of their grandparents and uncles and cousins.  Jared and I have already designated two of the weekends they’ll be gone as getaway weekends – although I currently have absolutely no idea where we’ll be going or what we’ll be doing.

I leave for Chicago on July 22nd to attend BlogHer.

I think that wraps up the travel portion of the craziness.

I just accepted a new position as the editor of the hotel blog for UpTake.  I’m excited and nervous and honored as hell to have been chosen and scared out of my mind that I will fall on my ass.  Unless you are reading this and you run UpTake and recently hired me, in which case I am just excited and honored and I’m sure it will all be fine.

I’m bound and determined to make progress on The Book.

My friend Samantha, who is a real and actual writer and not in the Internet sense of the word but in the she has actual manuscripts printed on real paper sense of the word, has read the first 20 pages and her encouragement and insistance that I keep going has been nothing short of amazing.  She has given me permission to believe and to try and to invest in something that might never mean anything to anyone besides me.

So, yeah.  The Book.  It has officially moved into the Priority column.

In order to make room for all of these things on the proverbial Plate, I’ve had to take a closer look at my life and the way I spend my time.  There are some things that cannot be sacrificed – mainly Jared and the kids and my health – and a few things that I know I need to let go of.  And then there are things that I refuse to give up, but that I realize can be taken in smaller chunks.

Like this blog.

I’m not giving up this blog.  A few people have kindly given me permission to do so and even gone so far as to encourage me in that direction – in the interest of “focusing on more important things”.  But right or wrong, this blog is important to me.  And for as long as that continues to be true, I will continue to dedicate some of my precious time and energy to it.

But I’ll be doing it smaller doses.

There was a time when I posted something every single day here.  And then I went to every week day.  And then I broke my brain and went to a “GUESS!  GUESS!  GUESS WHEN YOU’LL SEE ME AGAIN!” schedule.  For now, I’m going to a Monday, Wednesday, Friday schedule because it makes the most sense and I think it will help give me the balance that I need to get other stuff done.

For those of you who read Buy-Her (thank you! I love you!  You are my favorite!), you’ll be seeing the same posting schedule there.

I’m a little nervous about all of this.  I’m taking on new projects and rearranging my schedule.  I’m trying really hard to live the kind of life that is in line with what I profess to value.  And I’m trying to do it without driving myself straight into a loony bin.

Not that there’s anything wrong with loony bins.

I hear they serve cookies.

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26 Comments so far

  1. Kim June 5, 2009 12:41 am

    You’re going to ConFab too ?! Squeee !!

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  2. Deb on the Rocks June 5, 2009 12:47 am

    There are cookies in Mommy’s Nervous Resting Home, but they are cheap-ass half-broken ones, and you can’t taste them because of the cotton-mouth side effects of the treatments. So good for you to let things shift to make room for the new.

    Jealous I can’t make it down to the Tampa BlogHer meet-up to meet the Florida contingent.

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  3. Selma June 5, 2009 2:46 am

    That is great about the new gig – you will do really well. I think it’s important to scale back when needed because none of us can do everything. Sounds like you’ve got lots of things to look forward to. I’m really pleased for you!!

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  4. Sarah June 5, 2009 4:19 am

    Britt, you know I’m not going anywhere no matter how much or little you post here.
    I’m just happy you are taking steps to make yourself happier honey.

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  5. Shash June 5, 2009 6:48 am

    So excited about the book!! No matter what you do, I’ll always support you 100%. :)

    Say hi to everyone for me at Faiqa’s, ConFab, and Tampa. Wish I could be there!! Have fun!

    xoxo

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  6. Dawn June 5, 2009 7:25 am
  7. SciFi Dad June 5, 2009 7:34 am

    Sounds like life will be exciting but busy. Good luck with the book.

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  8. Robin June 5, 2009 7:39 am

    They serve cookies AND orange juice. Picture giving blood every day. :)

    Happy for you, hon. :) Hopefully I will get to see you again soon…

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  9. Sybil Law June 5, 2009 8:29 am

    Nope – not insane at all:
    In a mad world only the mad are sane.
    Akira Kurosawa
    Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
    Albert Einstein
    There is always some madness in love. But there is also always some reason in madness.
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    Dreaming permits each and every one of us to be quietly and safely insane every night of our lives.
    William Dement
    Though this be madness, yet there is method in ‘t.
    William Shakespeare
    You’re just fine, and I wish you the best of luck! :)

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  10. Krystle @snarkykisses June 5, 2009 8:53 am

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with scaling back! You have a lot going on in your life, and SO MANY positive things going on!

    Seriously, go back through and read your post… do you see how well your life is really going? All the great things you’re able to do?

    You should be so proud of yourself Britt and all of the things you are accomplishing for not only yourself but your family and friends.

    You are a wonderful person, with a big heart, and the willpower to be the person YOU want to be!

    :) Happy for You!

    xoxox

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  11. Hilly June 5, 2009 9:08 am

    I’d be worried if you didn’t scale back or rather, shift your priorities here and there. It seems like we’re all doing that lately for different reasons and you know…it just feels right.

    I hope you know that I think you are amazing. Enough said.

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  12. Bre June 5, 2009 9:22 am

    Congratulations on your new position, Britt!

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  13. Finn June 5, 2009 9:48 am

    Way to work on a better balance.

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  14. floating princess June 5, 2009 10:08 am

    Congrats on the new gig! That’s so very cool! We all need to shift our priorities at times and sometimes blogs take a backseat. I’m happy for you that things that are important to you are coming together for you!

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  15. Kiefer and Emo June 5, 2009 10:22 am

    Finally… REAL writing. Go for it.

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  16. Becca June 5, 2009 10:35 am

    Congrats on all the new stuff going on, we will certainly still enjoy the MWF posting days… I have a question though… Can normal (read non-full time bloggers) people go to Blogher? I am interested for next year, this year there is just nooooo damn money.

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  17. Little Miss Sunshine State June 5, 2009 10:44 am

    When that book is published I will be in line to pay for it!

    Sometimes it takes going crazy for a little while to realize it’s time to set priorities.

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  18. Nobody June 5, 2009 11:03 am

    As you may know, the The Loony Bin is right here in the town I live in.

    You are mistaken about the cookies, they actually serve brownies. And they are delicious!

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  19. Casey June 5, 2009 12:56 pm

    You had me at “A month without children”. Do your parents want two more for the summer?

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  20. always home and uncool June 5, 2009 2:43 pm

    For a reasonable fee, you could always outsource to a reliable, underemployed professional ;-)

    Good luck, but don’t crazy. Eat, sleep, live. K

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  21. Mr. Fabulous June 5, 2009 5:37 pm

    “Another blogger’s house”? Is that all we are to you?

    *sob*

    LOL

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  22. pocket queen June 6, 2009 7:08 pm

    congrats on your new job! and good luck with the book. I agree with everyone who thinks that scaling back is a good idea. For what it’s worth, I think the internets who read your blog want things to work out and be good for you. And now that’s happening, so more than anything, I think we’ll just be happy that your life is going well, and rooting for you even if it means there’ll be less to read here. (At least, till the book comes out!)
    Go Britt! :)

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  23. blues June 7, 2009 2:49 pm

    I wish I could commit to three times per week! I just don’t have enough material for that. I would end up making bullet point lists that mean nothing to anyone but me.

    congratulations on the job and on all the upcoming fun.

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  24. Missives From Suburbia June 7, 2009 7:37 pm

    I just wrote a very similar post, and I am working on The Book right now, as well. Maybe we need to swap pages once in a while to keep each other on our toes.

    Good luck, hon!

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  25. father muskrat June 8, 2009 10:36 pm

    Good luck to you…obviously, I had to all but drop the blogging thing, too, when I started pursuing more important long-term goals.

    Incidentally, Mrs Muskrat got approached by an editor and publisher to write her first book without any solicitation (or agent employing) whatsoever! She just found work she loved, started doing it, and then blogged about it, and the right folks found her. I think fortune finds the talented and passionate eventually.

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  26. whall June 10, 2009 12:02 pm

    In light of your scheduling decision, I’ve decided to change my commenting days to Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday so that your readers will have something worth coming for.

    No need to thank me; however, some royalty payments would be nice.

    Reply

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